December 20, 2013

Wishing You ...

Earlier this year, when preparing for our family's summer vacation, my daughter asked me to make a promise: "For the next two-weeks, Momma won't be elbows deep in work, the blog, schedules galore and commitments to keep. Momma promises to just relax."

Well, today is the last day of work and school for two-weeks, and I reaffirmed that promise to my girl again last night.

No matter where you are, who you're with, or what you're doing for the holidays, make sure to take a moment and remind yourself that every day, you change someone's life for the better. You matter. You are full of meaning. And you are worth some rest & relaxation. After all, it's time to stop and renew.

Looking forward to sharing all sorts of lovely things together in the New Year!

Happy Holidays,

xx JN

October 28, 2013

Seriously, Ladies?

In middle school, I was BFF’s with one of the popular girls starting in fifth grade, but by the time we got our periods, discovered boys, and started to have different interests, she emerged as a mean girl, and I was arbitrarily outcast. Simply put: I didn't make the cut. There was no room for me to be different and continue to exist in that circle. Joining an entirely new lunch table was nothing short of terrifying, and I was grateful to make new friends, helping ease that pit that lived in my gut every day as I left for school. 

I am amazed at how decades later, nothing has really changed. Put a group of women together, and the minute someone stands out as "different," she is bound to come out hurt, judged, ridiculed, picked on, ganged up on, talked about, teased, or scrutinized. Rarely do you find a group of women in complete and genuine support of one another. How sad is that?

When there are multiple women standing on the same landing, sharing similar aspirations, desires and ideals, there is this incredible sense of community and empowerment. But when one person shifts and takes a step in a different direction, quite possibly perceived as "ahead," look out. 

Seriously, ladies ... why does everything between us turn into such a competition? 

Although it is never easy to acknowledge - let alone admit - we have all been there. We've seen another woman move forward in an area of her life, and instead of applauding her, we find ourselves saddled with negative feelings. The truth is, those feelings are nothing more than an outward expression of our own insecurities.

When we put our cards out on the table, those insecurities stem from key, universal topics: body image, career, education, children, financial status, relationships, etc. Depending on where we stand with each topic - "Am I a success or failure at this; good or bad; worthy or unworthy?" - oftentimes determines how we treat the other women who come across our path.

Not only am I disheartened by this, but also exhausted from it. Nowhere in the rule book does it say that being mean, rude, snarky, smug, spiteful, arrogant, and/or critical are necessary when we watch someone achieve a goal, implement a change, or try something different. 

On the flip side, we must also remove from our thinking the idea that when we decide to make a different choice, act a different way, or explore a different direction, we have the right to flaunt it and shame those who aren't there yet. After all, the need to broadcast anything on our own accord is merely a cry for attention and validation. If the actions we take are motivated by proving something to ourselves, or to someone else, we are still functioning from a place of insecurity and unworthiness. That, too, will drive people away. 

Lesson learned: when humility and compassion are removed from either side of the "different" equation, people get hurt, and relationships suffer. 

What would the landscape look like if we chose to foster the good in each other, to validate each other’s worth, to acknowledge each other’s struggles, and to embrace each other's changes and differences? There is, in fact, room in this world for each of us. Let’s celebrate that fact! No matter where we are on our path, let's sit side-by-side and share a very important universal truth: we are in this together - maybe not on the same time schedule or with the same result - but in it together nonetheless. 

xx JN

October 16, 2013

Pretty + Posh Pumpkins

If you are ready to embrace something other than the traditional Jack-o-Lantern this year, here are some creative DIY techniques to transform your pumpkin into something way more posh! 

Drilled Pumpkins

Decoupage Pumpkins

Argyle Pumpkins

Fabric Leaf Pumpkins

Push Pin Pumpkins

Patterned Pumpkins

City Lights Pumpkins

Southwest Pumpkins

Do you have a favorite non-traditional way to display your pumpkins? Make sure to leave a comment below and share it with us! 

xx JN

October 14, 2013

Gluten-free Goodness: Chocolate Pear Tart

Chocolate Pear Tart at Jason & Hamad's apartment in Park Slope

I stopped over to see my lovely friends, Jason & Hamad, on Sunday morning. As always with these two, nothing within their home is anything less than amazing: the food, interior design, or the hospitality.

When Hamad offered me a slice of his freshly baked Chocolate Pear Tart, I immediately responded with, "No, thank you. I can't eat it." Jason quickly recalled the fact that it was gluten-free - yes, my lovelies, it is made with almond meal!

Cut to: Jenn + Chocolate Pear Tart + iPhone + Instagram + happy soul!



1 cup whole, blanched almonds (may use an almond meal substitute)
3/4 c. sugar
1 stick butter, softened to room temperature
3 large eggs
1/3 c. unsweetened cocoa powder
1/2 tsp. Kosher salt
1 Tbsp. brandy
1 tsp. vanilla extract
3 ripe Bartlett pears
1/2 lemon


Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Prepare a 9-inch removable bottom tart pan with either non-stick cooking spray or brush with butter. Set aside.

Combine the almonds and sugar in a food processor and pulse until they are incorporated finely and evenly. Add the butter, eggs, cocoa, salt, brandy and vanilla; process until combined. Spread the mixture evenly in prepared pan.

Core the pears and slice into thin, even slices. Rub with lemon slices to help prevent discoloration. Arrange the pears atop the chocolate mixture, slightly overlapping, without pressing them in.

Place tart pan on a baking sheet for approximately 45-50 minutes, until the top is puffed and a toothpick comes out mostly clean with a few crumbs attached. Remove from oven and cool completely.

xx JN

October 13, 2013

Souper Sunday: Kale & Black-Eyed Pea Soup with Sun-Dried Tomatoes

On a rather hurried lunch hour last week, I popped down to Fresh & Co. to grab some soup. Although I am a huge fan of their Turkey Chili, another offering looked too delicious to resist: Kale and Black-Eyed Pea Soup with Sun-Dried Tomatoes.

Gluten-free, dairy-free, and vegetarian, I knew this was something I couldn't have only once. So, in an attempt to recreate it, I adapted a few recipes and came up with the following:



2 cups of dry black-eyed peas
2 Tbsp. olive oil
1 medium onion, diced
2 carrots, peeled and finely chopped
2 celery stalks, finely chopped
4 cloves garlic, minced
6 cups of stock (vegetable or chicken)
1 14-1/2 oz. can diced tomatoes
1/2 cup sun dried tomatoes, drained (either chopped or julienned)
2 bay leaves
4 cups of fresh kale, ribs removed and remaining kale torn into pieces
salt and pepper to taste


freshly grated parmesan cheese, optional
red pepper flakes, optional


Soak dry beans according to package instructions. Drain and set aside.

In a large pot, heat olive oil and saute the onion, carrots, and celery until the onions are translucent and the carrots and celery are tender. Thoroughly salt and pepper the mixture. Next, add the garlic and saute for about 30-seconds - do not burn the garlic.

Add the stock, soaked beans, diced tomatoes, and bay leaves and bring to a boil. Reduce heat, cover and simmer until the beans are soft - about 20-minutes.

Remove lid, add the fresh kale and sun-dried tomatoes, and continue cooking for another 5-minutes. Salt and pepper the soup to taste.

Serve immediately. Ladle into soup bowls and sprinkle with freshly grated parmesan. Note: if you wish to keep this dairy-free, omit the parmesan.

Looking for an added kick? Sprinkle red pepper flakes in with each individual serving.

Can't wait to hear what you think!

xx JN

Tip: make sure to keep your carrot & celery pieces approximately the same size when chopping - this will make for a more evenly cooked mixture.

October 10, 2013

House & Home

I would naturally gravitate toward a Duchess Peony scented candle any day of the week, but take that scent and use it to conjure the idea of a Powder Room with it, and consider me sold.

This is how I discovered LAFCO House & Home Candles over the weekend, and I am not sure how I ever lived without them.

Conceptualized with the purpose, "A Candle for Every Room and A Candle for Every Home," you can imagine my enthusiasm exploring such virtual spaces as: Boudoir, Kitchen, Guest Room, and Country House.

Each soy based candle is displayed in a well-weighted, art glass vessel. Although the price point may be considered on the high-side by some ($60 each), I can promise you these candles are worth their weight in gold. The size is very generous - 16 oz. compared to a 6.7 oz. standard Diptyque candle at the same price - and guarantees 90-hours of burn time.

My top three favorites? Ranch House, Patio, and Music Room.

xx JN

October 6, 2013

Souper Sunday: Cilantro Lime Chicken Soup

No matter where I have lived, once the month of October rolls around, I'm ready for homemade soups simmering on the stove. I love a good stock-based soup, and my Cilantro Lime Chicken Soup adds a Mexican flavor to a traditional favorite. 
1 medium onion, diced
1 bunch scallions (white parts + 1/4 of the green tops), diced
1 small can diced green chiles
3 cloves garlic, minced
2 quarts chicken stock
1 small can diced tomatoes (drained)
2-3 cups shredded chicken (1 raw breast = approx. 1 cup shredded)
1/2 tsp cumin
salt and pepper (amount depends on the saltiness of the stock - add according to taste)
3/4 cup cilantro, chopped
lime wedges
avocado, diced
freshly chopped cilantro & scallions
In a large stock pot, sauté the onions and the scallions in olive oil until translucent. Salt and pepper the onions and stir well. Add the green chiles and sauté until well blended. Next, add the garlic and sauté for about 30-seconds. (Tip: as soon as you smell the garlic after it hits the heat, it's time to move to the next step!)
Add the chicken stock and the diced tomatoes. Bring to a slow boil. Add the shredded chicken, cumin and salt and pepper. Allow enough time for the flavors to combine and for the chicken to heat through. About 10-minutes before serving, add the cilantro.
Serve in large soup bowls and top with freshly squeezed lime (just drop the wedge in the bowl after you've juiced it), avocado, and a sprinkling of freshly chopped cilantro & scallions. 
xx JN

Tip: If you're in a time crunch, pick up a fresh rotisserie chicken, shred the meat and add it directly to the soup!

September 10, 2013

All Cheer for Puppy Chow!

A huge thanks to the BuzzFeed Community for featuring my recipe for original Puppy Chow alongside 14 other delicious (and adventurous) varieties! Make sure to take a peek at the article here and check out #1! Now, which of the other 14 will I try next? Hmmm ...

xx JN

July 17, 2013

Beyond Yoga: Sample Sale!

My lovelies, if you are anywhere near Culver City this weekend, you had best get yourself to the Beyond Yoga sample sale! You know how I feel about Beyond Yoga ... so because I'm here in New York, you must go on my behalf! 

Those of you who can't make it, fear not - there's always much fun to be had online! Can we discuss The Head Turner?! J'adore!
xx JN

July 2, 2013

Time Traveler

Since the last time I was here, I traveled to China and back, my girl transitioned from 3rd to 4th grade, Spring left, Summer arrived, DOMA was struck down, and Mr. Newman & I are experiencing a week of almost odd quiet as our girl went to sleep away camp for the first time.

What continues to go through my mind are those infamous sayings such as:

"Time flies when you're having fun!"

"There's a first time for everything."

Lyla's very first Broadway show

"Time stood still."

 "Summertime, and the livin' is easy"

"Time can't move fast enough!"

"It's about time!"

And ...  time after time, I sure love being right here with you! It's wonderful to be back from spring hiatus, and boy do I love that summer is in full-swing! How have you been spending your time?

xx JN

May 15, 2013

Spring Hiatus

As Spring continues to try and make its appearance here in New York, I continue to try and do the same right here! I must admit I have been far too in the moment to stop and write in these last couple of weeks, but encourage you to also follow my train(s) of thought over on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Above are some photos documenting what I've been up to as of late. Even though we're still grabbing a cardigan before we walk out the door in the morning, Summer is rapidly approaching, isn't it?!

I will be leaving in the coming days for a two-week adventure in China, visiting Shanghai & Beijing during my stay. I cannot wait to explore these ancient cities, climb the Great Wall, tour the Water Villages, hunt for silks, buy pearls and devour some of Shanghai's infamous vintage shops.

Until my return, I wish you the loveliest of Spring-filled days, delicious Memorial Day barbeques with your favorite people, and oodles and oodles of plentiful sunshine: both literally and figuratively!

xox JN

Photos, top to bottom: Tulips in Park Slope / Blooms at Bloomingdale's / A cheery walk through Washington Square Park / The most delicious macarons from bisousciao / Great Gatsby windows at Brooks Brothers / a Saturday afternoon stroll by Bergdorf's / My new Clarisonic Mia 2 - please tell me you're getting one! / My go-to summer handbag (the E/W Willis) from Coach / post-Devachan magic after seeing my girl, Nevilla / The easiest (and uber-delicious) dinner you must make tonight / An afternoon with my favorite girl / BFF's / Devachan magic for my mini-me / Jasmine tea at Jing Fong in Chinatown